Thanks guys, I was at the powersports shop today, and they told me that they would just pop them out for free and save me the trouble. So when my new a-arms come in, i'll just take them in and let the shop take care of it.
I finally made up my mind today about a-arms when I went to the shop and got their opinion on it. I found out that the shop works with burgard, and gets some great deals from them. They should be at the shop tomorrow, for $300 for a set of +2's. The only reason they're so cheap is that they're "blemished". It would never be noticable, but the nickel plating is a very light goldish tint at the ends by the ball joints, and they weren't perfect enough to pass burgards QC because of it. Also have a set of works shocks on the way. I was going to get +3's originally, but when I took into consideration that my wheels will also be giving me another 2 inches over stock, i decided to go with the +2's and not have to worry about if it's going to fit in the truck and on the trailer.
And DeathShadow, the shifter is still working perfectly. It hasn't bent or done anything else weird other than the paint wearing off, and i'm going to get it powdercoaded along with a bunch of other stuff this winter. I'm very happy with it. Thanks.